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July 28, 2006A Quick Look-Around from the Sickbed!Still under the weather, and I’m supposed to be in bed, but I snuck out to read news. A quick spin around the internets: Check out the nifty interview of Jim at Gateway Pundit. Very nice and the attention is more than deserved, as you can see simply by scrolling down his site each and every day. Always interesting and informative, and often GP brings you stories no one else is mentioning. The American Thinker looks at an “insider” DU poll that is a little depressing. Buster is begging me to fisk this woman but I haven’t the energy. He says if I don’t do it by Sunday, he might do it for me. He has quite a lot to say about her. I personally think there is a happy medium between over-doting on kids and being so detached from them that you can’t bear to sit through a movie with them - in a theater - without text-messaging your friends. There must be a happy medium between insisting that you spend every second with your kids and insisting that your own life comes first. This lady does not live in the happy-medium place. I loved driving my kids around, and was sad when they got their licenses and that part of my life ended. We had some of our best, most productive chats in the car as I chauffered my kids and their friends from one place to the other, and some of our biggest laughs. I can still remember the time my Elder Son, an uncanny mimic, had me laughing so hard with his impressions of our parish priests that I - completely breathless - had to pull over or risk getting us all killed. This mother can’t bear the idea of subjegating her life or freedom or time to the needs of her kids and she’s apparently afraid of spending “30 hours a week” (!) driving them around. What a shame. I miss those car-times, a lot. Melanie Phillips writes: What is essentially a war of defence and of survival, however, is being presented to Britons in their armchairs as a war by Israel of unconscionable aggression, with all the suffering taking place among the Lebanese who are in turn presented as the innocent bystanders caught up in a war in which they have no standing. The fact that Hezbollah was elected to the Lebanese parliament, holds government portfolios and has been allowed to operate with impunity by the Lebanese as a state within a state to carry out its murderous objectives towards Israel is almost totally ignored. Yes, innocent Lebanese are dying and suffering in this war, and that is awful. Innocent civilians, tragically, are always victims in any war. But Lebanon itself is not an innocent bystander at all. Right. Also, read Krauthammer and Beinart, if you missed them. Ed Morrissey relates that Israel is calling up 30,000 reservists. This shouldn’t have been as difficult as it has become. But Israel is trying to make war as nicely as possible, to please the critics. It doesn’t really work. Churchill never sent out flyers to let the enemy know where they would next be striking. Israel does, pays for that in blood, and is still criticized. Dr. Sanity has (and links to) brilliant commentary on that new and odd development in modern warfare - the need to make war while being “nice.” You’ll want to read it. The Democrats are vowing to obstruct again, and defeat John Bolton’s appointment to the UN. Why? Other UN officials don’t like him!. Awwww…and here we thought his job was to look after US interests…turns out it was to make other officials like him. Check out Bolton eviscerating John Kerry and handing him his entrails in that video. Democrats: what leadership! I want them in power, mmmmhmmmm! Did you hear WMD were found in So. Iraq? Neither did I. Mamacita is writing about education and testing and you should read it, if you have kids. Yes, we have some pretty lousy schools. Some of them are lousy because they hired lousy teachers. However, I believe that many of our “lousy” schools are bad because of the political pressure of certain families who WILL NOT ALLOW their kids to be challenged, punished, or in any way whatsoever held responsible for their own actions, and by a society that insists that it is not a kid’s fault if he/she behaves badly: it’s SOCIETY’S fault, poor kids, poor poor kids, and they crush, kill, destroy, disrupt, vandalize, talk back, threaten, bully, sleep, sell drugs, take drugs, rape, harass, street-talk, mug, skip, and otherwise renege on the unwritten school/society/student contract because of somebody else, not themselves. The poor things can’t help it. It’s not their fault. They’re victims of the system. It is this lack of backup from families, and administrators who are unwilling to buck the political system of a community and crack down HARD on offenders, that are our worst problem. Spot on. My best pal is a high school Social Studies teacher in a very “rich” school district and the parents are, in her words, “out of control and disinterested in having their kids held accountable for their own work.” Ever get invited somewhere only to find out your there to make it easier on the inviter? Tracey has. We’ve all been there, she reflects on it. And don’t forget to check out my blogroll…lots of good stuff there. Now, I’m really done. http://theanchoressonline.com/2006/07/28/a-quick-look-around-from-the-sickbed-2/trackback/ 3 Responses to “A Quick Look-Around from the Sickbed!” |
July 28th, 2006 at 1:01 pm
Anchoress, why do I even bother looking around the web when I have YOU? As always, great links.
I would love to see Buster fisk Ms. Kirwan-Taylor’s comments. He has a son’s perspective. I thought at first she was engaging in hyperbole as British columnists sometimes do as a hook in the first few paragraphs. But she admits to ACTIVELY pursuing activities to avoid taking part in her children’s interests and events. That’s truly odd. It doesn’t seem to be just about her personal enjoyment and avoidance of “boredom” - unless she gets satisfaction from thwarting their demands and/or hopes. Even *I* wouldn’t textmessage through “Pirates of the Caribbean”!
I read Mamacita’s post but didn’t comment - because our high school just got the state test results back. Once again, our students had the highest score averages in our county and the second-highest in the surrounding three counties. We’re also a rinky-dink small-town school. Our students complain that “our school is poor” because we don’t have a pool, air-conditioning in all the classrooms, or an endless supply of paper and writing utensils. (We cut that off when they kept WASTING it - boy! there’s a topic). But our school has a great interaction between the parents and the school staff. Our principal and several teachers grew up here, so they know the families. If I have to call home, parents call me back. Even parents of really tough kids - like my six students with probation officers last year - still give a damn about their kids earning their high school diploma.
Tracy’s comment about the “bait and switch” invitation had me in stitches: “At the very last minute, you are told that people you don’t even know or worse, people you don’t even LIKE, will also be there.” It’s never happened to me, perhaps because my family has angry drunks and blacksheep to watch out for; e.g. my uncle who was invited to every graduation party and every wedding but then we’d pray he wouldn’t come. But we never subjected friends to him - we had other relatives run interference.
July 28th, 2006 at 4:06 pm
Hey, A, thanks for the link! Hope you’re feeling better soon.
July 29th, 2006 at 6:50 am
Buster, please fisk that woman’s article, please!! I’d love to read it.