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May 11, 2008Congrats to David & MissyAll the pro-life rhetoric in the world pales in comparison to seeing real people choose life, love, family and hope for the future. Nobody is missing from the family pictures. Everyone is there. Congrats and God Bless to David & Missy and their little strawberry-blonde daughter, and to their loving parents. May 6, 2008Progressively lonely and longingFausta is feeling depressed about the inability of our young adults to develop relationships of mature intimacy.
She’s talking about this young woman, whose - indeed, sad - essay was choses from over 700 submitted by college students asked to write about love and relationships.
Siggy writes about love and the higher-self - the perfect union of love which is not simply a physical formula but one of the spirit. Two persons creating a single entity through both physical union and spiritual commitment. Truly, it is an idea almost as old as civilization - monogamy, family, the unit, which blends two families and then extends out. Given the determined effort of the know-it-all boomers to “deconstruct” all of the worthless and bourgeois establishment norms that went before them - marriage and family were emphatically “out” and “repressive” - it is not surprising to see a generation unable to process the idea of commitment to anything other than “whatever there is today.” “It’s your thing, do what you wanna do.” “If it feels good, do it.” “Make yourself happy,” and “the church of what’s happening now” have led us to:
I while back I wrote:
Dick Meyer, writing on the same issue and about our isolationism, in The Lonely States of America:
Indeed. How do we repair it? All of the old social safeguards are no longer in place; instead of communities wherein live several generations of families and friends, everyone is transient and most of us have only a nodding acquaintance with our neighbors. Church? Secularists who correctly identify the problem do not like to consider that answer, but there might be some help there. I like this bit from God and the World - by the man my son Buster refers to as “The Artist Formerly Known as Ratzinger”:
He goes on like that - very politically incorrect, of course. But sensible. If you don’t like the religious perspective, you can look at the trends in pop-culture to also see where defining down the differences between men and women have altered our perceptions of each other. Check out this post about the dearth of “women’s” films and strong, respected actresses:
The comments section is especially good. And it even offers a solution of a sort, different from Pope Benedict’s but it might be a start. I recall that one of the biggest movies in recent years was My Big Fat Greek Wedding - which had for its heroine a real, imperfectly beautiful woman, living in a real imperfect family, with embarrassing parents and nosy aunts and with involved neighbors in their ethnic enclave. To me, when the heroine’s WASPY future husband gets baptized in the Greek Orthodox Church and smiles at her, “I’m Greek, now,” and goes on to blend in beautifully with all the madness, lunacy, sorry and exasperated joy that makes up family - this is totally believable and real. And it is a clue as to how we might go on and go forward. If religion and authority are - for some - too scary a means by which we may begin to repair this lonely mess we’ve allowed to develop in our society, then maybe the popular culture - which certainly profited from helping to tear our social fabric apart - may figure out that there is profit to be made in restoring it, as well.
Yes…and it is the only thin we can do that ultimately assists in creation and in the continuance of the world. Something that powerful really ought to be respected, don’t you think? To know and be known
I read of a couple who chose to deliver a baby that every doctor said they should abort, because the baby would likely never live outside the womb. They had the baby - they gave him life, named him, blessed him, held and kissed and loved him for the 45 minutes he lived. They cooed and took his picture and said to him, “we welcome you, we love you; we are yours and you are ours; we thank God for you, we will see you again.” A few years ago, as my brother was dying, I wrote about the saying goodbye - how hard it is, but also how beautiful, and than life should be lived, while it can be.
God is love. The world needs more love, so the world needs more God. We get more God by allowing love and life to come into the world, by opening ourselves to it all, and by not hastening its departure. Related: May 5, 2008Clearing all the tabs…I did it again! Opened up dozens of interesting stories and blog posts and now I have too much to write about, so I’ll just link you to them! Siggy brings us the Heavy Metal Puppy: you won’t believe your eyes. GM Roper says we ought to be smarter than we’re proving ourselves to be. He’s quite correct. Remember Sandy Berger and his theft of Top Secret documents on terrorism? The Clinton library ain’t talking about it. It’s amazing how many things the Clintons get away with not talking about. Library donors, Hillary’s exceedingly radical past, physical examinations, money bundlers…all the ways the Clinton administration got palsy with China… Bill never minds talking about himself, though, and he’s reminding me a little of Gloria Swanson, here: “Somebody faints at nearly every one of these things now. At my age, I didn’t think I could make anybody faint anymore.” That makes my whole spine shudder the way it did when reading about Madonna rubbing against Justin Timberlake. You want to say, “for cryin’ out loud, get a room,” even though Clinton is only talking about himself. This Australian is more worried about Clintonian fibbing and Chameleon-like behavior than most Americans seem to be. Mighty Christopher Hitchens asks a great question: Can Obama’s Wright problems be laid at his wife’s feet? Hitchens is right to ask it and we do deserve to know. Bobby Jindal: love him, always did, and if he’d beaten Kathleen Blanco in the Louisiana governor’s race the first time and thus had a few more years under his belt in the state office, I’d say, “veep, hell, make him the top of the ticket!” I’d love to see him round out McCain but I don’t think it can (or even should happen) when his state clearly needs him. But then again the way this crazy primary season is going…well, you know my feelings. Meanwhile Baldilocks fears it looks like pandering. And one of the worst teachers I’ve ever heard about. The Swiss are concerned about cruelty and immoral behavior toward plant life. But don’t worry; abortion is still okay over there. Don’t Cry for Me? Here we have Fausta on the vagaries of Latin America and Gateway Pundit has Bad News for Hugo Chavez and some US Dems. Are Global Warmingists pulling a fast one? Duh. I like this video. Obi’s Sister looks at the fact-challenged press. It’s Little League Season! I so miss having a kid at the games! Danielle Bean writes about League-mom bi-location. Bring back movie execs who grew stars? There is an argument to be made. And the comments are interesting too, especially about Garbo. An Interview with Anne Rice, On Benedict’s visit and more. An interesting comments section, too. Video: Intelligent Design argued entertainingly. H/T Matteo, who probably thinks I never read him anymore, because I link so rarely. Video: A dedicated warrior sews and shows his softer side. Father/Son video games: I really love the picture. May 1, 2008Sometimes, the twains just gotta meet!There is a a lovely post up over at the Inside Catholic blog, wherein Zoe Romanowsky links to Fr. Hugh Vincent Dyer, OP (is it me or is the Dominican Order absolutely all over the internet and using it very well, indeed?), and his encounter with a Muslim woman that might surprise you.
You really do want to read the whole thing. It reminds me a little of a story I linked to last year, by another priest, this time one taking a lesson from a newly-baptized Iraqi woman who took her life in her hands to leave Islam and embrace the Christ:
I like how the Mother of the Christ, Mary, riffs through these two stories in one way or another, through the “Fatima” connection or the Hail Mary in the first story. Mary, of course, is revered in Islam, although differently than as in Catholic or Orthodox Christianity. She also appeared at Fatima, in Portugal, a place named for the most-favored daughter of Mohammed. I would have linked to Zoe Romanowsky’s post anyway, but right now I also do so in a special way. After trying very hard to keep my own east-and-west separately, today I finally toss it all up to God (in the same way I used to pick Buster’s pacifier up from the floor and give it back to him without major sterilization procedures) and say, “hey, while you’re there at Inside Catholic, go read my piece, which revisits - from a somewhat different angle - the Egan/Giuliani Imbroglio I second-parted here. Call it a part-three. Deacon Greg has discovered Bruce Wayne or maybe Elastagirl, given my runs up and down the scale! April 26, 2008Cistercian Monks’ first CDIt seems like it was only a very short while ago that news broke on these Austrian Monks getting a recording contract, and now their first album, Chant; Music for Paradise, will be released on May 19.
As you can hear in the video, they have an unusually pure sound - their voices seem to blend effortlessly and seamlessly. Gregorian Chant seems to be making a genuine comeback; thanks to the videogame Halo, kids are developing an ear and an appreciation for it; I think that can lead to very good things, even surprising things. Mother Benedict Nuss, foundress of the Abbey of Regina Laudis insisted that her nuns continue with Latin chant even when other monasteries were moving toward the vernacular. She said, “I had an intuitive conviction that the Chant had the power to communicate the life of God as no other music does.” Anyway, this is pretty cool. Meanwhile Margaret Cabaniss has a very brief snippet of song from those three brother-priests in Ireland who just signed a recording contract. A bit Irish-tenory for me, but it’s such a brief clip, perhaps it’s not fair to judge. In any case, I don’t think introducing a bit of Chant and such to the pop culture can hurt it any! May do some good! April 20, 2008Benedict and Ground Zero
For me, the most moving image of the papal visit thus far was watching Pope Benedict XVI leave the popemobile to walk, gravely and unassumingly, down the ramp at Ground Zero, to pray, bless the ground and meet with survivors and family members. He walked, all in papal white, wearing a light coat against the damp wind, arms to his side, his face solemn, and the world was quiet. And that image - at that instant - seemed earthshaking: the man Peter walking down into that terrible pit of pain - a place ruined by hate, but also redeemed by hope and heroism. It was maddening trying to find a news broadcast that managed to stop talking, but finally there was silence:
I was struck to see, each time someone moved to kneel before him, Benedict put his hand under his/her right elbow, discouraging the genuflection. He came down, he saw and blessed; he met with families and then…he left…without fanfare, having done the only thing he could do; shared Christ in grief and prayer. There was a humility and a sense of his respect for the ground and the families. It gave me chills. Benedict’s humility instructs. I am so glad he came. Benedict at St. Pat’s & Dunwoodie
Rocco at Whispers in the Loggia has been the indispensable go-to source for complete and timely postings of the texts of each of the many addresses Pope Benedict has made during his sojourn in America. I was happy to see that he (and Fr. James Martin) thought similarly to me, that the pontiff’s brief extemporaneous remarks at the back of St. Patrick’s Cathedral (upon being reminded that it was the precise moment of his election three years earlier) provided a perfect glimpse into the heart of the man:
You could sum his remarks up in five words, “Love Jesus, pray for me.” But he is much more elegant that that. On Friday night there was a youth gathering at St. Patrick’s Cathedral, and a friend of ours, a freshly ordained deacon participated. At one point the sacrament of confession was offered to the young people in attendance. “I made the same assumption that most people would make. I turned around to talk to someone, figuring at that point - at being offered confession - the young people would leave. I was stunned to turn back around and find lines 30 and 40 deep at each station, and a scrambling to find available priests to help out. We figured we would be there all night. For me, it was just extraordinary.” Rocco saw a bit of what was happening on Friday night as well; he writes about it and adds his own enthusiastic thoughts here. Martin called Benedict’s homily to clergy and religious at St. Patrick’s Cathedral, “…one of the best I’ve ever heard. Period.” Well, he’d say that, being a priest for whom its message was meant, but in reading it, I really must agree that it’s a stunner. His use of the architecture and structure of that very building as a metaphor for their lives in the church was just brilliant and again, yes, elegant:
He went on to discuss - again - the abuse scandals, and then to exhort the whole church to holiness through the grace of Christ. If you read no other text of Benedict’s visit this weekend, do read this one; it is a tremendous piece that both entertains and instructs and ultimately leads to thoughtfulness and prayer. Finally, wasn’t the gathering at Dunwoodie and St. Joseph’s Seminary a wonderful sort of “mini” World Youth Day? One of the kids presenting the pope with an American and tri-state-area-based Catholic hero was a friend of the family, and it was thrilling to see him connect with Benedict with a very Italian-style buss to both cheeks. Benedict must be tired - he’s 81 and has had very full and emotional days all throughout this trip - and yet he, the introvert pope, seemed to be as bouyed and energized by the 25,000 young people in attendance as John Paul II ever was. Excellent day! I agree with Gateway Pundit that Kelly Clarkson sang a good (and youthful) rendition of Shubert’s Ave Maria, although I do wish someone had urged her against the plunging neckline. Flipping the channels this morning I heard someone complaining that the pope is getting too much good press. Seems fair to me, considering the miserable press he’s gotten since he was Cardinal Ratzinger, and upon his elevation. But don’t get too concerned; as Jim points out here, some members of the press are happy to continue to mischaracterize the pope’s words and intentions. Over at Godspy.com, Angelo Matera has a great, spot-on piece about How the media is missing the pope’s radical critique of American religion, but the more I listen to the press during this visit the more I realize…they miss a lot. Gateway Pundit, who has pretty wide coverage of Benedict, makes a great catch:
Meanwhile Zoe Romanowsky notes how a celibate may become “father to the world” April 17, 2008Abortions for Art - UPDATE:::UPDATE::: Yale says FAKE; this is performance art. I must admit my mind would never go there, but if it’s a hoax, as I had hoped, then good.:::END UPDATE::: If the story is true, and it is so mind-boggling I want to believe it’s a hoax, then its breaking during the visit of Pope Benedict XVI (where we watched the pontiff pause in his exit from mass at National’s Stadium to kiss the forehead of a sleeping infant) will bring into full focus the contrast between the Culture of Life and the Culture of Death.
The “forced miscarriages” should be rightly called “self-induced abortions.” Just yesterday the reviled President Bush said:
Benedict - who famously cautioned us on the “dictatorship of relativism”, said in reply:
If the story is true, pray for this young woman; she is in serious, serious trouble. This poor young woman is apparently so much a product of the world and the secularist mindset that she has lost touch with her own understanding of her body, her sexuality and her humanness as something more than tissue and utilitarian mass. How hopelessly bleak. Benedict is here to teach us of “Christ, Our Hope.” This girl has no hope in her. She may have ambition, but hope is gone. It cannot exist in such a vacuum of understanding. She needs prayers. Lots of prayers and love. And so do all of the women out there who are struggling and praying for babies while others are throwing them away, and for all of us who have suffered through multiple miscarriages and still remember and miss our lost children, while others…well…it’s unthinkable. I hope the story is a hoax. I’m holding out for it. Related: The Democrats don’t want to official commend the pope. He’s you know, pro-life. April 3, 2008Enlightenment through a stroke & other linksThis is a remarkable talk by a remarkable scientist, Neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor, who recounts what she learned from her stroke
Feed your right brain! Pray - meditate - contemplate! Other interesting links: Is “Manmade” Global Warming Alarmism Al Gore’s therapeutic solution to his 2000 loss? Can embracing the hard stuff carve out your heroism? If your religion has to threaten you with death to hold you, do you stay? Is the craft of journalism depressed or full of neurotic and self-loathing? Or is it just journalism-ADHD? Planned Parenthood: Does it represent Margaret Sanger’s racist and genocidal ideals? Read Sanger’s Pivot of Civilization and decide for yourself. Did Hillary really try to deny Richard Nixon the right to council? If so shouldn’t we see her being questioned about it? How long do illusions last? Go Arlen! How many appellate judges did they managed to seat for Clinton? Did you ever think women wearing wallets would be this interesting? Do you like STACLU’s new design? |
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